Thursday, July 23, 2009

Where were we? Ah yes, I remember.

My husband was gone to Brazil from the 12-21st. If you'll recall, before leaving he told his (soon-to-be-born) daughter just not to try any funny business until he got back on the 21st. She complied perfectly. However, yesterday in the evening of the 22nd, a little over 24 hours after he got back...

I started having contractions that wouldn't stop. Every 3 minutes. By the time I called triage at the hospital, they said 'Come in NOW.' And that we did.

We came home this morning at 3 or 4 am after quite an adventure which included among other things: one botched IV that left a huge bruise on my right hand, one good breathing treatment due to a sudden onset of asthma and a baby girl still in utero who decided those few hours in the hospital were the moments to REALLY practice her soccer skills (what, with dad back from Brazil and all). Finally the contractions lessened in frequency and there seemed to be no other immediate health risks to attend to. During the whole time I just kept thinking, 'I can't be having this baby now. I mean, look at my husband....'

...who was barely able to keep his eyes open. His past week consisted of crazy travel itineraries, the death of his father, working all the funeral arrangements out with some help from our newly adult nephew, mourning, and trying to make sure everything was ok here in the US with me. When we got to the hospital last night, he phoned his sister from the triage room because he hadn't even gotten the opportunity yet to call her and tell her he had arrived home safely. It had been a long week, what with his father passing away and all....

Yesterday, we went to mass in the evening in honor of my father-in-law. Seven day mass. It's a cultural tradition in Brazil -- have the funeral the day after the death, mourn for a week and go to mass seven days later. When we arrived home from mass, me still wearing my black, the contractions kicked into overdrive. And thus we found ourselves at the hospital all night. However, before all this ensued...

While my husband was gone, my bestest best friend came in town for a week. She was great. She took care of everything. It was great to see her and visit. I was grateful for her to be here. She even indulged me in a haircut and coloring, a photography session done by her at my house and many lovely dinners. I indulged her in one home-baked cherry pie. Which reminds me...

A couple weeks ago I promised a post on the paucity of cherry crops in Michigan, the state where the annual National Cherry Festival takes place. That post never came. Ah, well, what am I going to do? I think I'm going to make another pie this weekend, so if you're lucky I'll remember to take pictures and post them here. But until then...

Pics of a very pregnant lady with a fabulous new hairdo:



34 weeks yesterday. Still with baby inside. Just stay put, little girl, ok?

9 comments:

Amy said...

Welcome back!

Glad all is ok!

Little Miss Sunshine State said...

My Sweet Lord! No wonder you were exhausted.
My sympathies to you and your husband's family
And I just got all teary looking at the pictures. You look beautiful!

phd in yogurtry said...

What a glorious picture! You and the baby look very happy together. I think she's gonna stay for another few weeks. She just missed her daddy and wanted his attention : )

dragonflymama said...

You look great! I'm glad all is well, despite all the tiring events.

Natalie said...

What beautiful photos. Thank you for sharing them. Glad baby girl has decided to postpone her arrival for the time being. My sympathies to your husband and family.

Serial Mommy said...

i love how our children like to shake us up for the heck of it!! i love your haircut by the way, i like mine nice and short too, keeps the maintenance to a minimum...yes, your daughter waiting until her daddy could be more awake and able to focus on her birth would be much nicer, i agree!

Crys said...

Oh Goodness! Maybe that was her way of saying "Welcome Home Dad!" I hope that you're resting up well now after that exhausting ordeal. I hope your husband has had some time to unwind also. Sounds like he had a crazy long week too. And those are beautiful photos! Love them!

Bubblewench said...

YOu look so beautiful! Glad hubby is back. Hope he gets some rest before little girl pops out!.

Amira said...

You look beautiful here, Heather. I pray that ALL goes well and look forward to seeing pics of your little one in the not-too-distant future. :)

 
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